Joy or Happy
These terms are often used interchangeably. I have separated them. Happiness is based on my circumstances, while joy is sourced from...
Jerry Clark
Sep 8, 20232 min read
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That Sneaky Culprit...Indecision
Have you ever made a wrong decision or even many wrong decisions? Welcome to the club. Indecision produces second-guessing and doubt for...
Jerry Clark
Sep 6, 20232 min read
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Silence is Golden
“Silence is one of the greatest arts of communication.” ~Marcus Tullis Cicero Have you ever pondered the idea of silence being an art of...
Jerry Clark
Sep 4, 20232 min read
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Eggshells at work
Walking on eggshells at work represses communication and productivity. Feeling your voice doesn’t matter can lead to breakdowns that can...
Jerry Clark
Sep 1, 20232 min read
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Eggshells at home
I have talked before about "walking on eggshells." It can be one of the biggest blind spots in a relationship. As mentioned in my...
Jerry Clark
Aug 30, 20232 min read
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Who is culpable here?
Have you ever found yourself in a relationship where you feel your voice doesn't matter? Talking to someone who is grumpy, growly, stern,...
Jerry Clark
Aug 28, 20232 min read
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Can failure be my teacher?
Sam Walton, founder of SAM'S, tried and failed numerous times before finally opening a business that satisfied customers and propelled...
Jerry Clark
Aug 25, 20232 min read
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The Golden Rule
We definitely teach others how to treat us in relationships. This can be a significant blind spot so hidden that we don’t even know it’s...
Jerry Clark
Aug 23, 20232 min read
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Change frustration into fascination.
I may have written about this before, but the idea has been reoccurring lately, perhaps I need a reminder. As Ralph and Robin were taking...
Jerry Clark
Aug 21, 20232 min read
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The Herd
I often use my West Texas metaphor of being cut from the herd. I refer to this metaphor as being isolated, discarded, or rejected from...
Jerry Clark
Aug 18, 20232 min read
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Dead Right
I was talking to my friends Ralph and Robin recently. Robin was not feeling appreciated and expressed it to Ralph. Robin told Ralph that...
Jerry Clark
Aug 16, 20232 min read
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The Hook
I start my day by offering peace and kindness to others. In my neighborhood, I often engage in small acts such as waving to people during...
Jerry Clark
Aug 11, 20232 min read
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Freedom
I have just read Nguyen Dang Kha's book Passage to America. His story is about the horrible treatment the South Vietnamese received after...
Jerry Clark
Aug 9, 20232 min read
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Positive vs. Negative
Today I find it easier to point out the flaws and mistakes of others rather than looking for their accomplishments. Social media and...
Jerry Clark
Aug 4, 20232 min read
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Goal Line
In pursuing success and personal achievement, it is common to wonder, "Where is my goal line?" This question reflects the desire to know...
Jerry Clark
Aug 2, 20232 min read
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The Delicate Dance
In a previous post, I revealed how discovery vs disclosure had an impact in the workplace. This post uses the same concept in...
Jerry Clark
Jul 28, 20232 min read
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Schedules
Ralph and Robin are going through the rituals of life like so many other couples. The ability to offer their children great things is...
Jerry Clark
Jul 21, 20232 min read
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No Regrets!
Have you ever considered living a life with no regrets? What an exciting quest this would be. I have lived many years and have...
Jerry Clark
Jul 14, 20232 min read
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Blunders That Derail Communication
Let me tell you what I need from you before I tell you what I am going to tell you. This statement gives the listener a clear expectation...
Jerry Clark
Jul 7, 20232 min read
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Right or wrong?
It is easy to catch others doing things wrong. It is almost cultural. Children can grow up hearing more negative comments than positive...
Jerry Clark
Jun 28, 20232 min read
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