Blind spots often stem from pride or insecurity.
My blind spots are the habits and traits that hinder my success, such as being a know-it-all, always needing to be right, being overly controlling, being a procrastinator, or any other unflattering label I might not recognize in myself.
Over time, my boss, customers, loved ones, co-workers, or friends might stop offering feedback, leaving me in an echo chamber of my assumptions. I might notice them "voting with their feet," subtly or not so subtly, distancing themselves. Promotions may slip through my fingers. Relationships might grow strained or even dissolve. The price of ignoring blind spots can be steep.
How do I gauge whether I'm recognizing and addressing them? It starts with my willingness to listen and reflect. Feedback is a gift, even when it stings—my instinct is to avoid negative feedback. If I react defensively or dismissively, it's a sign I need to pause and ask myself: Why does this bother me? What truth might I be avoiding?
Next, I can seek trustworthy individuals, mentors, colleagues, and friends who are honestly constructive and want me to grow and succeed. Asking open-ended questions like, "What's one thing I could improve?" or "What do you know about me that I don’t know?” can reveal invaluable insights.
Self-awareness tools, such as journaling or assessments like the Johari Window, can also help uncover patterns I might not see. Equally important is observing the outcomes in my life to gain deeper insights.
If I notice recurring conflicts, stalled growth, lack of meaningful connections, or the tendency to blame others, it's time to look inward. Personal development is essential for success and recognizing blind spots has been a difficult journey for me. By embracing vulnerability and committing to change, I can transform these hidden obstacles into opportunities for progress.
As blind spots are revealed, my emotional and intellectual self, experiences growth.
What about you? Can you accept feedback, whether it's delivered gently or bluntly?
Watch for the blind spots.
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