Iron Sharpens Iron

Second Saturday is a monthly men's meeting at our church. We gather to enjoy pancakes, sausage, orange juice, and coffee and engage in devotion and faith stories for about an hour. This past Saturday, I looked around the room and saw men much wiser than me; I love hearing their stories of life and faith. I was thinking about the phrase "iron sharpens iron," which comes from the proverb, "As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another." This metaphor highlights that I will grow stronger, wiser, and more skilled through interactions with others. Just as iron becomes sharper when honed against another piece of iron, my mind and character are refined when I connect with my Christian brothers.

Participating in his Wednesday men's meeting has grown my son tremendously. I love to see his growth in faith and confidence.

At its core, "iron sharpens iron" is about mutual growth. Relationships that embody this concept are ones where both parties benefit, learn from each other, challenge assumptions, and provide constructive feedback. Each person offers unique strengths and insights in these partnerships, strengthening the other's weaknesses. This isn't about passive camaraderie but intentional, honest, and supportive relationships.

In practice, this sharpening can take many forms. In professional settings, colleagues could give each other honest feedback to improve their work. In personal relationships, it might involve friends or partners discussing their perspectives and pushing each other to be the best versions of themselves. The phrase comes to life in groups like Toastmasters, where people unite to enhance their communication skills. Members push each other to grow by offering insights, encouragement, and thoughtful critique.

"Iron sharpens iron" reminds me of the importance of surrounding myself with faithful Second Saturday guys. When I connect with these guys who share their commitment to growth in faith, I create a powerful cycle of learning and betterment. Embracing this principle can transform my relationships into spaces for growth, resilience, and mutual empowerment, making everyone more robust and capable. Regardless of my surroundings, I like to lead with faith in Christ.

How about you? Who do you use to sharpen you?

Watch for the blind spots.

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