I remember driving my old “beater” down life’s highway in San Angelo, Texas.
The fenders were dented, the paint was rusted, and some windows cracked. It rattled with every bump, bounced off guardrails, and skidded into ditches. Sometimes, it even sent me in the opposite direction. But in that old beater, this was just normal travel.
And just like my car, my life was in rough shape too.
I crashed into conflicts, veered off course, and blamed everything but myself for the damage. The guardrails were “too close.” The potholes were “out to get me.” Other drivers—well, they were just “bad at driving.” But the truth? My beater wasn’t the problem. I was.
The steering, brakes, and gas pedal were all under my control. Yet, I kept driving recklessly, blind to the fact that my habits, my choices, and my blind spots were what kept getting me in trouble.
And people? They didn’t want to ride with me. When they did, they held on tight, hoping for the best. Some even looked at me like I was the problem.
And honestly? They were right.
It took me a long time to realize that my life, like my car, was in bad shape because of how I was driving. My lack of self-awareness, my unwillingness to take responsibility, and my tendency to ignore warning signs were the real reasons I kept ending up in ditches.
So, I made a decision.
I traded in my beater for something better. I started paying attention, listening, and making course corrections. I learned that humility, self-awareness, and accountability could turn my wreck into a smooth ride.
Now, I drive a full-size SUV.
It’s polished, steady, and dependable. People wave instead of passing me in fear. Life’s highway is an open expressway, with clear signs and bright lights guiding my way.
I traded my pride for wisdom and my recklessness for responsibility, and in return, I’ve gained something far more valuable than a fancy new ride: rich, meaningful relationships.
And that, my friends, is a trade-in worth making.
What are you driving down life’s highway?
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