At an early age, when I found myself in disagreement, I would go into convince mode. I had a difficult time being wrong.
Today, it’s about being clear about my position or my opinion. I don’t have to convince anyone of anything when I am clear. My message speaks for itself.
Clarity cuts through the noise. In a world cluttered with information, a clear message stands out. It’s like finding a lighthouse in a storm. I know exactly where I’m headed because there’s no confusion. This principle applies to all life areas, from personal relationships to professional endeavors. It does not ensure I will get my way, but I am okay with that.
When I am clear, I save time. There’s no need to go back and forth trying to explain my point. Whether I’m pitching a project to the boss or explaining a decision to a friend, a clear message gets straight to the point. This directness not only saves time but also builds trust. I find people appreciate honesty and straightforwardness.
Clarity also builds confidence. I naturally become more confident when I know what I want and how to say it. This confidence is contagious. I notice people are drawn to those who are sure of themselves and their message. They’re more likely to listen, understand, and agree with me because I’m not wasting their time.
Clarity fosters genuine connections. When I’m clear about my thoughts and feelings, it encourages others to do the same. This mutual understanding lays the groundwork for deeper, more authentic personal and professional relationships.
Again, I will only sometimes get my way, and I will relent when necessary and not waste time trying to convince. I may do what I want or return to the drawing board, but I will not convince.
How about you? Do you attempt to convince, or do you display clarity?
Watch for the blind spots.
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