Oh, to face my truth. It’s one thing to research a topic, but another to realize I’m in the middle of it. [Blind Spot]
I’ve been looking at the hazards of playing it small and can now see that I’ve been doing that: playing life safe, holding back, and waiting.
How often have I hesitated to speak up when I had something valuable to say? How often have I avoided opportunities, downplayed my strengths, or waited for the “perfect moment”? Not because I lack ability but because I fear what stepping up might demand of me. Playing it small feels safe, but it keeps me stuck.
I’ve seen that fear of failure, rejection, or even success has been running the show. Stepping into my full potential means taking responsibility for my gifts, embracing visibility, and risking criticism. Growth demands discomfort.
But here’s my truth: playing it small doesn’t limit me; it also limits others. When I hold back, I deny the world the benefit of my talents, wisdom, and leadership. Someone out there needs what only I can offer.
In order to insure I am not playing it small: First, I must recognize the excuses I tell myself, “I’m not ready.” “Someone else can do it better.” “What if I fail?” These are fear-based thoughts, not truths. The key is acknowledging them without letting them dictate my actions.
Next, I need to take imperfect action. Waiting for the perfect moment is just procrastination. Growth happens in the doing, not the waiting. It’s okay to start messy, to feel afraid, and to make mistakes. What matters is moving forward.
I must also surround myself with people who inspire, challenge, and push me beyond my comfort zone. Their courage reminds me of my own.
Most importantly, I must own my values. I don’t need permission to take up space. My voice, my perspective, and my gifts matter. Playing it small won’t keep me safe; it will only keep me invisible.
How about you? Are you also playing it small?
Watch for the blind spots.
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