I like the sure bet. I have tended to play it safe in life. Looking back, my fear of failure fueled it. Sometimes, I didn't try out for things I could have easily done, but fear of failure or rejection kept me playing it safe. Dang! What kind of thinking was that? Too often, I have compared myself to others who have done better or have more, and I have fallen short.
Fear of failure is one of the biggest obstacles between me and success. It keeps me stuck, paralyzed by doubt, and afraid to take risks. While it's natural to fear failure, allowing it to control my decisions comes at a high price. How many times have I missed opportunities due to fear?
Fear can dictate my results if I avoid challenges that could lead to growth. Whether starting a business, pursuing a dream job, or speaking up in a meeting, fear makes me play it safe at the expense of incredible possibilities. It also limits my personal growth. Failure is one of life's greatest teachers, offering valuable lessons that help me improve. By avoiding failure, I miss the chance to learn, adapt, and evolve into a better version of myself.
Beyond lost opportunities, fear of failure can lead to regret. Imagine looking back on life and realizing that fear stopped me from chasing what I wanted. The regret of never trying is often worse than failing itself, making us hesitant to take risks even when the stakes are low.
Instead of seeing failure as an endpoint, I should reframe it as a learning experience. Taking small risks can build resilience and focusing on progress rather than perfection helps me move forward. Most importantly, I must remember that failure is temporary, but regret lasts forever. The fear of failure might be strong, but the cost of letting it control my life is even greater. Would I rather fail or live with the regret of never trying? Perhaps I don't want to know the price I have paid because I am looking for a sure bet.
My truth is that failure isn't the end. Never trying is.
Watch for the blind spots.
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Thank you Jerry!! Good Stuff!!