Blame is a monster that keeps problems alive. When my relationships aren't going well, whether with friends, family, or coworkers, I don't want to point my finger. Instead, I turn to the person I see in the mirror. If I'm honest, the breakdown often starts with me, and that's where the solution lies.
I love talking to people, and over time, I've noticed that many relationships fall apart because of a lack of responsibility. It's hard to admit my flaws and even harder to change them. In our culture, it's almost second nature to expect others to change while we stay the same. But real growth requires self-reflection and effort.
Using a mirror as a symbol of self-examination is powerful. Mirrors show us how we appear to others, but more importantly, they reveal how we see ourselves, including the things we don't like or try to ignore. That's the essence of "The Man in the Mirror." When I am willing to confront the truth about myself, I can begin to make meaningful changes.
Lasting change starts from within. Whether improving my personal habits, adjusting my attitude, or making a difference in society, I have to start by looking inward. As the songwriters Siedah Garrett and Glen Ballard expressed through Michael Jackson's iconic hit, the journey to transform the world begins with changing myself.
The song's message is about personal accountability. It asks us to take charge of our lives and become the change we wish to see. This idea isn't just for the lyrics of a song; it's a timeless truth reflected in literature, music, and everyday life.
Each morning, I stand in front of the mirror, I ask myself: What can I change today to build a better me? Any small change I can make might just ripple out and create the change I hope to see in others.
How about you? Do you want change to begin with others, or do you want to change the man you see in the mirror?
Watch for the blind spots.
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